posted on August 31, 2013 17:59 by
I get really frustrated when I work with people who have convinced themselves they are someone else, living someone else’s life. When we are not happy and feel miserable about the choices we have made throughout life that then bind us with people and material things we no longer value or like anymore, we lose all hope. It is very hard to leave a bad marriage or partnership that is causing you to over indulge for comfort when your whole existence and survival depends on it, so we just stay and believe we are trapped there miserable, until we die.
Life is not a rehearsal, we all make mistakes and people are resilient and strong, as long as the thoughts, feelings and opinions of others are factored in when breaking up any life union. Often when we do find the guts to begin the journey of talking through why we are unhappy and stuck, this dialog begins to open up big issues that could be the reasons why you have become disconnected from whoever you are over. When we talk honestly and sensitively about how we feel, discovering new truths about each other and acting on them, we can reignite tired relationships and rejuvenate some romance and sexual intimacy back in the mix.
My new book, Help Work Yourself Out, will show you, by looking at my car crash life, how to change the way you think, so the things you think about can change. Being happy is the key to a long healthy life, something we should all strive for when every day could be your last. I can show you how looking inward and not outward for acceptance and love from others, is the secret to getting what you need by understanding what you think you want, is just what you have been subliminally told by big brands, the media and big business.